A person with a shaved head, wearing a bright orange-red monastic robe, walks barefoot on a sandy beach towards the ocean. Their back is to the viewer. Large waves crash in the turquoise-blue sea under a clear, light blue sky. Footprints are visible in the sand behind them.

Buddhism, Sex Scandals & Lessons Learned

The year 2023 has been a turbulent year for Sri Lanka as far as religious affairs are concerned. On January 5th the Social Media Activist Sepal Amarasinghe was arrested by the Criminal Investigation Department over defaming the Temple of the Sacred Tooth Relic and slandering Buddhism. On May 15th the president ordered the CID to…

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My Tour in New Delhi: A Lankan Chronicle

Despite having a considerable distance to traverse before achieving a spot among the top ten global cities, New Delhi is undeniably a destination that beckons visitors with its charm and allure. I know that it’s true because, on September 24, 2018, I embarked on a journey of 1,288 miles to New Delhi with three of…

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Teachers’ Dress Code and the Rest of the Iceberg

The talk of the town in Sri Lanka these days seems to be about the dress code of teachers. There are two camps. One believes a teacher should have the freedom to choose between the saree and more comfortable attire and another that argues teachers shouldn’t be given that choice on grounds of modesty, tradition,…

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Dealing with Your Inner (Emotional) Hurts

Emotional pain can be defined as pain or hurt that originates from non-physical sources. Sometimes such inner hurts are caused by the people in our lives. While people are the source of the greatest joy in life, they can also be the greatest cause of inner hurts we face in life. People can hurt us,…

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I’m a Tough Guy! Are You?

In the film “Big Game” the President of the United States (Samuel L. Jackson) while running for his life explains about looking tough to a 13-year-old boy he met in the woods. It’s a very interesting conversation. Jackson tells the little boy, “Sometimes you don’t have to be tough. You just have to look tough.”…

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My thoughts on #no​ගුටි (#nospanking)

In the event, you are not aware, #noගුටි (#noguti: translates to #nospanking) is a national campaign launched by the Stop Child Cruelty Trust with the Child Protection Alliance of Sri Lanka to promote the ban of Corporal punishment in schools. The campaign was officially launched on February 21, 2022, at the Goethe Institute in Colombo….

An outdoor, eye-level shot captures a large, multi-story building with a light green roof and balconies, a part of General Sir John Kotelawala Defence University, under a cloudy sky. In front of the building, a dark green tank is displayed on a patch of grass. A paved road with a black and white striped curb curves in the foreground, leading towards the building. Lush green trees and bushes are neatly arranged along the roadside and around the tank, and a tall palm tree rises behind the building.

The KNDU Bill and the Boy who cried, Tiger!

I am passing by the Open University of Sri Lanka on my way to work and I cannot help but notice a banner displayed inside the campus premises facing the Nawala road. The banner says, something to the effect of “රාජ්‍ය විශ්ව විද්යාල පද්ධති​ය දිය කර හරින කොතලාවල පනත හකුලා ගනු” (Roll back the KNDU…

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Protect Your Children from Sexual Abuse and Molestation

As accusations of child abuse emerge with alarming regularity across the country, Sri Lanka is experiencing a nationwide crisis of child abuse. Over 2,500 incidences of child abuse were reported to the National Child Protection Authority (NCPA) in the first 60 days of 2020, while 5,242 cases were reported by July 2020. On average, its…

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How to Talk to Your Children about Sex in Sri Lanka?

In Sri Lanka, sex is considered taboo. Mainly because our definition of sex is narrow and limited to sexual intercourse. I remember a friend asking our Christianity teacher (who was explaining the ten commandments) the meaning of the sixth commandment: “Thou shall not commit adultery.” She managed to slip away with a vague answer, but…

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What’s so bad about Living Together?

I have been pondering the best approach to this post for some time when I came across this video on Coach Sandaru Hettiarachchi’s YouTube channel. In her video, she kind of justifies the trend of unwedded couples “Living Together” or “Cohabitation” culturally and sexually, citing how our ancestors used to cohabit before the concept of…

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